Saturday, April 5, 2008
Hey guys, it's the late hour and I'm feeling very tired right now. I would have just skipped blogging (again) and go to bed if it were'nt for this little qoute about girls from one of my friends.
he says:
"they say, "you boys are boring". when
they knew they are the one who is
boring. and because the thing called
love that forces the boy not to be
himself and pleases the girl till she
is satisfied."
How true is that? I mean considering that the guy isn't just some MAT. Thinking about, guys are usually the one sacrificing all of their time and effort to see the girl. Everytime. I'm jsut saying this through experiences.
Imagine, your girlfriend, living the opposite side of the country and you sacrifice your time to go over there just to pick her up and send her home. I mean I'm not saying that it's not fair or what but guys are suppose to do that. They should sacrifice to all heights just to make the girl happy. Because why? Because it's the girl that is going to bear the weight and responsibility of the child in the future. Assuming there's a future of course.
BUT
What do guys expect in return??????
Defenitely is should NOT be sex. Sex is just a way of showing love. Again assuming there is love. But the littlest bit you can do is at least be faithful to your boyfriend and also just show him that you care. If you do not know how to "pujok" or console him when he is under the weather. At least try. Don't just keep quiet a pretend that it's not your fault. Guys ALWAYS take the blame for everything even though it's not their fault. They do this so that the girls will not feel GUILTY. This is simply that guys want their girfriend to be HAPPY all the time.
Okay, I agree sometimes, a guys ego gets in the way and also they so called do not "understand" why girls decide to make certain decesions. Well, here's a fact. We guys sometimes "overeact" because, we just don't see the point. I mean you girls make up your mind by feeling. While guys, we go trough it by thinking. See, feeling and thinking are 2 different things.
Take for example, if you get dumped. Girls it's the girls, most of the time, they will be like "he's a jerk, get over it." or "He's being too posessive." I mean you all feel it's that way
whereas the guy thinks "I was only watching soccer, I only spend 90 mins on the TV while I spend 16 hours with her, it only seems fair that way." or "I mean, I only wanted to see her everyday for at least an hour and she can have the 23hours to herself."
Ok, lets go into some science stuffs (Here we go again Zee -.-" )
Ahem
What we want and what we do are strongly decide by three things, our INSTINCT, EGO and SUPEREGO.
when a guys sees a hot lady walk past, his INSTINCT tell him "Rape her!!!!" but his EGO says "Not now, wait until nobodys looking." WHEREAS his SUPEREGO says "Don't do it, It's not right."
So you see, the SUPEREGO is in a constant battle over EGO and INSTINCT. Safely to say, since guys have big egos, they have more SELF-CONTROL. This is also support by religion. "
A guy is made of 9 wills to think and 1 desire. Girls are made of 9 desire and 1 will to think"
The only thing that saparates us human for animals is EGO and SUPEREGO.
Sadly to say, nowdays both guys and girls lack that ability to control themselves. Like what kin said "Whatever happened to morale and dignity."
Having said all that, the only thing a guy wants form a girl is faithfulness and her love.
So what if a girl two-times you for another guy? (like my ex) What would make that &^%#$ then? You guys and girls THINK and FEEL for yourselves and tell me on my tag board alright?
At then end of the day, it's still the same game but played on another field
Profile
Name;
Zee SkinnyFries
Gender: Male
Bio:
I'm just your average guy. I don't label myself and i hate people labeling me
Somehow life sucks for me most of the time, oh well, better luck next time i guess
my lucky charms somehow revolves around my good friends:
Kin
Zahidah
Currently not single and not available
I Love Her
Likes:
Music
Guitars
Movies
Gigs
Chilling
Chuck Taylors
Macbeth =D
Black, Red, White
Hates:
M&Ms
Techno
Stereotypes
Last Minute Change Of Plans
Non-Understanding Parents
Two-Timers
Liars
Backstabbers
Being Broke
e-mail: corrupt_66@hotmail.com
